Dear Difference Maker,

The only thing between you and Love is what you’ve decided about it. If you don’t feel the Love that you are, decide differently. 

Every time you decide to put Love first it affects the energy of everyone and everything in your entire stratosphere. 

Love is not clingy, needy or controlling, it is comfort and warmth, given freely and lightly … just BE the Love that You Already Are and take 3 minutes to enjoy the movie I have for you today! 

Please be sure to pass it on to the other loved ones in your life!

… just take 5 & grab a cup of jo and click here to enJoy today’s video.

Reaching out …

PS … This video is available for personal use and/or public presentations in Full-Screen, High-Def for immediate download with licensing. Click here.

Own Your 50%

THIS STRATEGY WAS DESIGNED TO assist people who have discovered that they have a tendency toward being co­ dependent. What is co-dependency? Co­ dependency is trying to fill your innermost needs through outside approval. Sometimes this is done by trying to be all and do all for all people. It may be trying to carry a load of 120 percent for the entire world. It could be wondering why people don’t appreciate all the hard work you do for them yet questioning why they aren’t doing any of it for themselves!

Co-dependency is reading self-help books for other people! Co-dependency is giving a self-help book to other people and telling them that the book was written just for them. Co-dependency is not understanding that the book is perfect for you! Doing people too many favors teaches them: one, you are a pleaser, or, two, they are simply too incompetent to do anything for themselves. So why should they bother when you’ll do it for them?

Co-dependency is owning more than your 50 percent. It can be most helpful to know that you need only be 50 percent responsible for your interactions. You can relieve yourself of an enormous burden by understanding that people are capable of learning what they need to know and are capable of speaking for themselves. It is their responsibility to do so or miss out!

In moving away from co-dependency, you will find that you need the other person to have a discussion. You will find that you don’t have to know it all, and in some situations, you may even find you don’t know nothing’!

Everyone will experience
the consequences of his own acts.
If his acts are right,
he’ll get good consequences;
if they’re not,
he’ll suffer for it.
-HARRY BROWNE

Keep It Simple & Straightforward

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