Dear Difference Maker,

During some of the most difficult times in my life, I found the best way through was by getting out of my house and involved with organizations that were making a difference in the lives of those in need of my time, talent and treasures.

While you are finding your way through the “in the meantime” moments of your life know this … Volunteering feels great!   National Volunteer month in the United States takes place coming up in the month of April. This month is dedicated to honoring all of the volunteers in our communities as well as encouraging volunteerism throughout the month.

Have you ever thought about Volunteering?

Today’s movie is about what it feels like to give of yourself in this way. Through the writing of John Wayne “Jack” Schlatter we recognize that Volunteering is so important because reaching out to touch another person, is always the best gift we can give to others and, ultimately it is the best gift we can give ourselves!

… grab a cup of jo and click here to enJoy today’s video.

Reaching out …

PS … This video is available for personal use and/or public presentations in Full-Screen, High-Def for immediate download with licensing Click here.

Appreciation Raises Self-Esteem, Self-Esteem Increases Productivity

WHEN WORKING WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE experiencing low self-esteem, it is most healing to appreciate them just the way they are. Part of the problem with people who are underachieving, is their fear they will never measure up, so they don’t try. When you acknowledge someone for just being here, it can make a world of difference in his level of productiveness.

In working with at-risk youth, it is necessary to build a relationship first and then encourage them to get down to work. Being productive builds self-esteem. It is amazing how a child acts when you say, ”Johnny, I am really glad that you are here today and thank you for sharing what’s going on for you. Now, it’s time to get to work.” And then see to it that Johnny gets to work. When he feels he may fail, say, ”Yes, you can, yes, you can, yes, you can, and I will support all efforts you choose to make.” It is such a simple strategy, yet so powerful.

It often amazes me how quickly this strategy gets students up off their duffs and working beyond their usual pace. I listen carefully to their beliefs and perceptions about themselves, then I honor their fear that they are less than what they could be. After total acceptance of their feelings, I tell them that it’s time to work and that I will support them. In a relatively short amount of time, relationship building, boundary setting and affirmations can be established, thus empowering them to be capable individuals.

One day a student had forgotten to take his medication. I was warned that this kid could get crazy without it. I made a decision to get selective amnesia and not ask him if he had taken it that morning. Instead, I initiated a relationship with him the minute he came in the room. We discussed several issues that were bothering him. Then he calmly went to work and turned in several assignments. It wasn’t until later that afternoon that I found out from another teacher that he had not taken his medication, and to her surprise, he was doing very well!

Acknowledgement calms children, adolescents and adults. Acceptance heals innermost conflict, reduces fear of failure and heightens self-esteem. Make others feel that they matter. Appreciation needs to be given unconditionally.

Blessed are they who have the gift
of making friends,
for it is one of God’s best gifts.
It involves many things,
but above all,
the power of going out of oneself,
and appreciating whatever is noble
and loving in another.
-THOMAS HUGHES

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