INSANITY IS DOING THE SAME THING over and over again and expecting different results. Seriously, if something is not working, it’s not working. It could be that you’re trying too hard to force the other person to “get it,” when the only person who needs to get it is you.

This may seem a bit overwhelming at first, but trust that if you don’t like the situation, you are in, then it is you who must be accountable for your own well-being. This isn’t always easy, yet it is this simple. Enlisting the support of others may or may not help. Attempting something different is at least worth a try. Integrity in all attempts will enhance your chances at breaking an existing cycle in which the outcome appears to be less than success.

Once you’ve decided what it is you want to do differently, see yourself doing it, affirm that you already are doing it, act “as if’ you already know how to do it, and then, when the opportunity presents itself to you, do it.

You learn that whatever you are doing in life, obstacles don’t matter very much.

You learn that whatever you are doing in life,
obstacles don’t matter very much.
Pain or other circumstances can be there,
but if you want to do a job bad enough,
you’ll find a way to get it done.
-JACK YOUNGBLOOD